Dear struggling student,
Managing studies and a job simultaneously is no small feat. Balancing academic pressure with the financial responsibility of supporting yourself is incredibly demanding, and I want you to recognize the resilience and commitment you’re showing just by showing up every day.
You sound overwhelmed—and that’s absolutely natural. Your concern about things getting out of hand is valid. Remote jobs can blur boundaries, and without structure, it can feel like you’re always working.
From what you’ve shared, it sounds like you’re carrying multiple layers of emotional pressure:
- The fear of falling back on your grades.
- The fear of losing your job.
- The comfort your job brings because it’s familiar and stable.
- And the mental load of knowing you can’t afford to choose just one over the other right now.
So, we need to look at each of these aspects one by one—acknowledging them and creating a plan to help ease your overwhelm.
Let’s take a breath and explore some strategies to help you regain your footing.
Reprioritize Your ‘Why’
First things first. Reprioritize your why. Why are you doing what you’re doing? What is your long-term payoff? From what you’ve shared, it sounds like your studies are tied to your bigger goals—and your job, while essential, is a short-term cushion helping you get there. When everything feels urgent, it’s easy for long-term priorities (like studying) to get sidelined by short-term demands (like work tasks). That said, no one can pour from an empty cup. When your academic focus starts to suffer, it’s a sign that the current system needs some adjustment—not because you’re failing, but because you’re human.
Practical Strategies for Balance
Below are some practical strategies for you to explore and implement:
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Set ‘office hours’ for work: Even though your job is remote, treat it like an on-site role. Block specific hours in your day that are only for work, and communicate those clearly to your employer. This helps you build a boundary without saying “no” to everything—just “not right now.”
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Structure your week visually and intentionally: Use a calendar or planner to map out your week in advance. Color-code it—one shade for study, one for work, and one for remaining personal time. Allocate clear blocks for each activity, and be sure to leave buffer time (a couple of hours) between studying and work. This visual structure can reduce mental clutter, help you stay focused, and make it easier to spot when you’re overcommitted or need to adjust your boundaries.
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Talk to your employer: Since many of the work tasks feel urgent, could you gently speak to your manager about setting clearer expectations during your academic hours? Most reasonable employers appreciate honesty when it is paired with accountability. Let them know you are balancing studies and how it is currently impacting you, so you can reach a middle ground.
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Create a triage plan for work interruptions: When work pops up during study hours, ask yourself:
- Is this truly urgent, or just time-sensitive?
- Can I respond briefly now and follow up later? You don’t always have to say no. A simple, “I’ll get to this after 4 PM when I’m back at my desk” goes a long way.
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Start a gentle backup plan: If the fear of losing your job is weighing on you, begin exploring part-time roles that are more flexible—even if you don’t apply right away. Sometimes just knowing you have options brings immense relief.
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Be kind to yourself: This is a tough season—but it won’t last forever. The skills you are building now—resilience, time management, and emotional intelligence—will serve you for years to come. Pause every now and then, breathe, and honor how far you’ve come.
Try these strategies and see how they work for you. Good luck!
— Haya
