Jennifer Lopez has resolved to move forward from Ben Affleck. However, she has specific demands for her next romantic partner, according to a recent report from In Touch. A source divulged to the outlet, “Believe it or not, Jennifer says she wants a ‘regular Joe,’ a businessman or a blue-collar guy who’s secure in himself.” “A guy who is strong in his convictions, someone who will make her feel special, safe, and secure,” the source continued. Before concluding the conversation, the source explained why Kevin Costner, who is reportedly planning a Hollywood comeback, was never a suitable potential suitor for Jennifer. “She’s tired of being exploited by men who crave the spotlight,” the source remarked. As for Kevin, he is reportedly enjoying the newfound attention from Hollywood divas like Jennifer Lopez and Jennifer Aniston, but he is not interested in rushing into a serious relationship. “He doesn’t want anything serious, not for now,” a source shared with RadarOnline.com, adding that the Yellowstone star is “acting like a bachelor in his 20s.”